Me & The Monkees

I was just reading one of my favorite blogs, Little Fears, written & cleverly illustrated by Peter Edwards (buy his teeshirts! buy his books!). Anyhow, here is his post, which took me back in time, and inspired me to write what follows.


Spider looked miserable.

“What’s up?” asked Fuen.

“My new girlfriend is leaving me,” sighed Spider. “She says it’s because I’m too obsessed with The Monkees.”

“Oh dear,” replied Fuen.

“At first I thought she was kidding,” cried Spider. “Then I saw her face….”



Back in elementary school, my girl friends and I had a little contest going: who could be the first to purchase the latest album from (siggghhhh!) The Monkees. We would then spend entire Saturdays listening to their albums, over and over again. You could practically see the red hearts  ♥♥♥ beaming from our eyes, as when Davy would fall in love with yet another-girl-who-wasn’t-us on their kitschy TV show.  Oh, Davy: how could you?

The thrill of my lifetime, at least up to that point, was when my dad took me to SEE THE MONKEES IN CONCERT!!! Now, you must realize that loud music and strobe lights were the stuff of his nightmares. This was a huge sacrifice and show of love from him to accompany me. When we arrived at the Kiel Auditorium in St. Louis, Missouri, on the Day of Infamy, August 5, 1967, we were seated in a box overlooking the main floor. Our neighbors were other dads and their overly-excited, dressed-up daughters (I mean, what if I met Davy, and he fell in love and wanted to marry me? I had to look good, for a flat chested 11 year old.)

As soon as Davy, Mickey, Mike and Peter took the stage, the crowd commenced to a fit of screaming that was shrill and high pitched enough to attract every dog within miles. These stupid girls were so loud, that our little box of relatively well-behaved young ladies began to complain. You couldn’t hear the singing!! I was so angry and yelling at the crowd to “SHUT UP!!” No one could hear me, of course. I discovered that if you put a finger deep into each ear, fingers almost touching each other mid-brain, you could block out the screamers and still (barely) hear the music. We all sat with our fingers in our ears for the remainder of the concert. As we left the auditorium, I thanked my dad with true sincerity, but he was looking almost green from the noise and psychedlic light show. I had my Monkees Tour Program clutched to my rapidly-beating heart, thinking back to the Michael Nesmith song that had me worrying for their safety. I would hate to be responsible for the outcome that these lines promised …

This one thing I will vow ya
I’d rather die than to live without ya…

Wait for me! I was growing up as fast as possible.



introducing: Cali, the wonder dog

Cali came with my marriage. She was non-negotiable, unlike my ugly couch and his box of Walgreen’s receipts dating back to 1972. She is the dog (see left) in the new picture above my smiling face. She had just gotten back from the groomers that day and if you look closely, you will see the two little red bows that make her look so cuuuuute!!! They lasted about 25 minutes before being pulled out. She likes to snooze on my futon while I am “working” , which sometimes consists of reading The Onion, Funny or Die or catching up on Facebook. When I take a break and lay out my yoga mat, she thinks it is an invitation to cuddle. She is very jealous and if she catches me & the hubs smooching, she is sure to insinuate herself right into the thick of things. Such a child.

The Tattoo

Tats are cool. I don’t always understand why someone would pay so much to decorate their body, but hey, I spend a small fortune on make up. So, I can sort of empathize. I just worry about those tattoos’ longevity. I mean, oh, sure: they look great, sexy, beautiful now … but what about when the person is a doddering old fart? And their skin is no longer tight and supple, but baggy and saggy. That evil grinning skull on your arm? It will stretch into some kind of sad, melted mess and the grin will become a frowny face. You don’t really want that,  do you?

Nevertheless, I once entered a tattoo parlor and — get this!! — I wasn’t even DRUNK! Or chemically impaired. Nope, I was stone cold sober and ready to githerdone. I wanted a sweet little butterfly on my … somewhere, it’s not important. But I wasn’t 100% certain that I wanted a butterfly, so I opened up the book of examples and began to peruse the photos. Dragons! Ninjas! The entire Patriots’ 2008 starting lineup! George Washington Crossing the Delaware. The choices were overwhelming. I kept pointing and changing my mind, “No, how much would this cost?” This went on and on for over an hour, until a customer came in and pulled off their shirt to have an actual target tattooed on their back. I saw the needle machine, heard it whirring like a dentist’s drill from Hell, watched in horror as the needle came closer and closer to actual skin, and then I lost my lunch in the closest garbage can. That did it. The owner threw me out on my un-tattoed butt. So, now you know where I almost got a really super cool, ultra-impressive, totally beautiful tattoo. Almost.

This is only a Test

I am about to test out the Daily Post word prompt, and see how it goes.

“PANICKED”. This is the word prompt of the day. “PANICKED”.

Can you please use it in a sentence?

I know panic quite well; we are on very intimate terms. I can panic at the drop of a hat, in fact, I most likely panicked BECAUSE I dropped my hat. And the wind picked it up and began to blow it away and every time I bent over to pick up said hat, the wind would blow it further away. This caused me great personal embarrassment and I panicked that I looked ridiculous. To whom? The squirrel in the tree? There is no one out here except for me, and the squirrel who has jumped into its nest because he is frightened by my ridiculous panic attack. Screw the hat. I didn’t like it anyway.

Miss Frizzle

This is what you want to hear from your hairdresser:




This is what you do NOT want to hear:


—heavy silence—

Then​: “Why didn’t you​ tell​ me you colored your hair???!!!”

I was at Erich, “Hairdresser to the Stars,” for my first perm. He styled all the senior managers’ wives at my office in Indianapolis. I was treating myself and couldn’t wait. Erich hissed as he unrolled curlers that had promised beautiful, bouncy waves. Why was he upset? I was frozen with apprehension. The answer became clear after he finished. My hair was fried. I looked like I had been hit by lightning. ​Twice​. Incredibly, ​he​ was angry at ​me​. “If you had told me, I would have used different chemicals!”

“Well, you didn’t ​ask​ me,” I was thisclose to tears. He was the hair professional. Not me. I stared in horror at my Bride of Frankenstein reflection, but my polite Midwestern personality was warring with the need to be assertive. I actually felt badly for ​him​, and heard myself reassuring this hair butcher that all was fine. I even tipped him, but refused to return so that he could “work” on it. I was never stepping into his salon again. I went home and made brownies, eating the whole damned pan.

My hair and I flew home to visit my parents the next weekend. Dad was waiting at the airport gate, and didn’t recognize this wild­-maned girl flinging herself at him. He looked stunned and was speechless the entire ride home.

Mom knew what to expect, having impotently listened to my hysterical phone calls. She pulled me into a big hug, whispering: “I made an appointment with my hairdresser for tomorrow.”

I held on tightly, so relieved to be home. Moms can fix anything.

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